I wanted to discuss the topic of
Nora and Torvald. In class we have already discussed how their relationship was
false and based on the fantasy of a perfect doll house. But when Nora leaves
the doll house, is she ready to take on the challenges of reality, or will she
end up alone and helpless? Can she handle the struggles that are certain to
come against her? The answer is that, no, Nora cannot handle the struggles that
will come her way, and she will end up miserable and helpless, and because of
her choice, her children will end up just like her.
Nora has had no personal experience
with taking care of herself. She has been handed almost everything in her life.
Nora was “simply transferred from papa’s hands into [Torvald’s], who arranged
everything for his own taste” (260), not allowing Nora for anytime for herself
and her own needs. Nora has proven herself to be manipulative and able to
persuade Torvald and those around her with her sexuality. Although she has this
indirect power over Torvald, she still cannot use it to sway his opinion on
larger scale events. She cannot use this manipulative sexuality in the real
world, because, as Krogstad proved, it does not appeal to everyone. Nora has no
means of attaining money, because she has never had to work or directly care
for herself and her family. Although she did a little sewing on the side, this
will not support her financially or for a long span of time. Nora believes that
when she walks out of Torvald’s perfect doll house, she will be able to manage
like Kristine, but with limited experience in any workforce or any knowledge of
what she is capable of, she will not be able to support herself.
Nora is
also leaving her children in an impossible situation, because she thoroughly
did not plan out her departure. In this timeframe, it was very rare that a
woman left her household and her children. Nora lost her mother when she was
very young, and grew up with her father. She does not want to influence her
children, and does not want them to end up unhappy like she did. But Nora did
not take into account that she was leaving all of her children in the same
situation that she had been left in. They will grow up with Torvald, and not
get the nurturing that a mother would give them, which is also what Nora
lacked. Because Nora wanted what was best for the children, she left them so
they would not grow up in the perfect doll house. But in doing so, she has left
them in the same situation that she was placed in as a child, and it will be
more likely for them to develop into the same individual that Nora was in. Nora
is not ready to depart into the real world because she could not even imagine
the outcomes and consequences that will occur to the children. She is still in
her own childhood state thinking about herself, and with this frame of mind,
she will not be able to support herself in the harsh reality of the world
outside the doll house.